Los Angeles Matchmakers With A Heart - Elite Connections

CEO and founder of Elite Connections International, Sherri Murphy and Vice President Tammi Pickle are the Elite mother-daughter team. Together they run Elite Connections International which is one the most successful matchmaking agencies in the world. This duo does things a little more unconventionally. They have succeeded in helping great couples find each other in ways they ordinarily would not have. By doing this, they were able to grow their business successfully. According to some Elite Connections reviews, this team has truly helped many couples find love and happiness. These elite matchmakers take pride in what they do. Helping their clients find long term love is what they do best. With an 86% success rate, these Los Angeles matchmakers have big hearts and a lot of love to give back. Today they are giving free dating advice for professional women looking for love again. Here is what they had to say:

To start, the most frequent complaints Elite Connections hears from women is that that guys are too visual; they only pay attention to how pretty you are and not how smart you are. This is a leading myth. Why?

1. Of course, it is easier to attract men if you are a pretty woman. But pretty women tend to have an unfair advantage over smarter, more intellectual women in all fairness. 

There is one question you should keep in mind: What kind of men do pretty women attract? It is true that all men like attractive women.  Men usually cannot say no to a beautiful woman. It is a big plus being an attractive woman when it comes to dating. But again, this does not mean that all men marry simply because of looks. Los Angeles matchmaker, Sherri Murphy, shares that elite men have told her that they want to marry intelligent women.  Of course, these men want someone fit and attractive, but intelligence does still matter to them and how they are as a person.  

2. There is a difference between objective beauty and perceived beauty.  

According to scientific research, objective beauty is all about symmetry. Unfortunately, not all of us are willing to get plastic surgery to make us look more symmetrical. This does not mean that we cannot increase our perceived beauty with some helpful tips. For one, no one tends to ever look good in bad lighting, especially when you are on a first date.  You should always make sure the source of the light is behind you and not in front of your face. Typically, yellow light is better than white light because it makes everything look softer and smoother. Be careful of the lighting when picking your seat on a date.

Some common Elite Connections complaints hears from single women is that they are unsure about their style of clothing, but you can always hire a personal fashion stylist to help you out. Los Angeles matchmaker and VP of Elite Connections, Tammi Pickle recommends this and says it is not only worth it but also a good investment in yourself. Once you hit your 30 years your beauty is determined by yourself! You cannot really rely on DNA at this point. To add to this, men tend to notice when you are wearing a lot of make-up. Men typically prefer the more natural look, rather than covering up so much. Wearing heavy make-up does not improve your perceived beauty. Going for the “natural look” such as wearing nude colors in moderation is best. It is advised to stay away from red lipstick on a first date because it can seem intimidating. Try wearing a pink shade of lipstick; men love kissing pink lips.  

3. Throughout time, smart women become more beautiful.

Let me tell you a quick story about Liz. When Liz was a young child, she did not have any confidence because she never had any nice clothes to wear. Her father was an alcoholic and she came from a poor family. She did not enjoy life as a kid. Once Liz started growing up, she decided she wanted to be a medical doctor and go to a university. She worked hard and earned her degree. After Liz graduated college, she found her first job in a hospital. She finally had the money to buy herself some nice clothes and changed out her whole wardrobe. After a couple years, Liz got herself into losing weight, dressed better, visited a facial spa, and did her make-up on a regular basis. Liz was working hard on herself.  Most importantly, Liz is an avid reader. Taking up this small hobby helped her in becoming increasingly intelligent. Every day she grew brighter and more radiant as a woman.

This could be the story of an ugly duckling transforming into a beautiful swan.  Matchmaker, Sherri Murphy, says that Liz used her wisdom and self-will to transform herself into something beautiful. She was focused, determined, and invested in herself and built a great reputation. Because of that reputation she built, she is happily married to a handsome, caring, and successful husband who just adores her. Typically, people would say an 18-year-old girl looks better than a 38-year-old woman just because youth is a powerful thing. But in this case, 38-year-old Liz looks way better than 18-year-old Liz because intelligence and wisdom are more meaningful! What Liz has accomplished is more attractive than anything.

4. Smart women have better dating skills.

Since pretty women do not have to try as hard to attract men, they start lacking in their dating skills. Smart women on the other hand, try hard to improve their perceived beauty and tend to have better dating skills because they practice them a lot more and use their brain to draw a man in. Better yet, smart women use their brain to keep their man interested. Matchmaker, Tammi Pickle, remembers many years ago, a senior woman said to her, “Wear your best clothes and enjoy your beauty and youth now because these things won’t last forever.” If you think you are young now, soon you will eventually be old and if you think you are old now, soon you will be even older.

Beauty is good for attracting men but not keeping them.  Brains are what keep men around. Elite matchmaker, Sherri Murphy, points out that brains can not only attract men, but also keep men overall. Every happy marriage has a smart wife in it! In the end, you cannot rely on beauty to attract and keep men- you must use your brain. Smart women use their brain to raise their perceived beauty and this attracts men. Smart women also improve their dating skills from their wisdom. All enriching your love life.  

Bonus Tips:

1. Read fashion magazines and imitate celebrities’ styles. Those Hollywood stars have hired professional fashion stylists to make sure their outfit is perfect. Do not worry about changing the look; just copy it.  

2. Change your hairstyle once a year to add more variety to your looks.

3. Read a book every two weeks so that you always have something interesting to say.  This will attract men faster.  

4. Do not go on a date if you are in a bad mood.  You always want to show up with a smile on your face and not complain about all your problems.

These matchmakers are here to help. They really enjoy helping many around the world find their soulmate. You can also read some great Elite Connections reviews and see why singles are contacting the Los Angeles Matchmakers at Elite Connections International. To contact them give them  800-923-4200 

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